I recall the phrase the customer is alway’s right and as a child being told I must share and people advise it’s not good to be selfish – so what does this all mean.
When we first started school, we were confident and happy withour own lives and having taught ourselves to stand up and walk and communicate – it was all about us at that stage. Somewhere along the line it all changed, we hade to share and consider other peoples opinions etc
Now is the time when we must focus on our owneeds and have belief in what we can and could do, other will not be helping with their possible negative comments, sharing at the onset is not alway’s the best option, we have inside our own intuition, as young children it used to guide us and move us towards and awat from things, we have to tap back into what is our own system for progress.
There are times when we could consult a coach but even then we will be proving the answers.
So I’ve decided that looking after yourself is not wrong, it’s just another way to do things – of course we must consider other peoples feeling but this is empathy which is another lesson in its self.
